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Achieve Inner Balance: Make Like A Tree and Root

February 9th, 2009 | by Riki Quinn

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This week in Israel there is a celebration of the traditional festival of the trees: or the New Year of trees. Traveling in Israel you will see multiple trees covered in white fluff. No, it’s not snow, it’s the thousands of white blossoms of the almond tree, this is the first tree to begin to bloom.

In many cultures, human characteristics are attributed to trees, and lessons are learned from them. In Jewish culture there is a saying in scriptures: “for man is a tree of the field” (Deuteronomy 20, 19). This is quoted as the reason for the commandment that when one conquers a city they must not kill the trees. Trees seem to have some kind of spiritual affect on many, from the most cynical among us, to the tree hugger.

When I was a kid I was told a story about a young sapling that was jealous of all the tall trees in the forest. He decided he wanted to become as tall as they. So, he grew and grew and was soon nearly as tall as the tallest tree in the forest. One day there was a terrible storm, the winds blew a gale, and the young sapling came tumbling down. He was only focused on growing upwards and neglected to grow his roots to match.  The moral of the story is: if you don’t have roots, you won’t survive.

Roots do not refer only to having an attachment to the past, to family and culture; it also refers to having a connection to the earth, staying down to earth. I tell my students in martial arts to “root” when attempting to keep their balance. Basically, I tell them to picture themselves as trees with roots coming out of there feet, connecting to the center of the earth. Picturing this image can help more than physical balance; it can help with emotional and mental balance as well.

When we get caught up in our work, or our future, we can sometimes lose our connection to the real world. How many of us have had the experience of making lofty plans only to come tumbling down with the first blow of reality? I’m not telling you not to dream. We must dream to live; otherwise there isn’t really anything to push us forward. But we must first strengthen our roots before we grow branches and leaves. We have to have some kind of stronghold from which to grow, whether it’s family members, cultural tradition, religious or philosophical beliefs. If we don’t have these, we continually get knocked down by life, by its demands and stressful living.

So, how do we get back down to earth? With this simple meditative exercise: The next time you feel stressed out about the present or the future. Take a few minutes, let’s say, before you go to sleep, when you wake up in the morning or on your lunch break. Stand with your feet about shoulder width apart, knees slightly bent and close your eyes. Take a deep breath and then exhale. Imagine that every breath you take fills your whole body with a cleansing light and every exhalation takes all your worries and bad thoughts out and down through your feet to the center of the earth where it gets dispersed.

The next breath you take, imagine that it is coming from the core of the earth, that it’s full of warmth and strength. Let it fill you up, from the center of the bridge of your feet, up your shins and thighs and stomach and spinal cord, up your head and out. Don’t worry if you can’t do this in one breath. You can take a breath, imagine the warmth or light coming up till your thighs or stomach, then take another breath. Take as many as you need. The last thing you need is to become stressed about your breathing.

This exercise will help you both relax, by getting rid of stressful thoughts, and will give you rejuvenating strength by taking it from the core. And remember, none of this can be done without roots. We should always try to not only grow upwards but deepen our roots as well.

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5 Responses to “Achieve Inner Balance: Make Like A Tree and Root”

  1. Roy says:

    hi,
    wanted to say that as a true tree hugger – i liked the article, but i have to say i didnt agree with all of it. i am 30, a pharmacist, and at the age of 29, after spending 2 very boring years as a pharmacist – i decided to try medicine. since the uni’s in israel wouldn’t accept me, i decided to take my chances and do it in Hungary. my whole family (well, almost) was against the idea, for economical, age and what not other reasons, but i decided that after a very long life of being afraid of taking chances – this time i’m gonna try it! i’m not sure i took this decision out of mental balance and strong self confidence. i do think that not only good roots are required in making desicions, but also an ability to take your chances from time to time. sometimes this is the thing that gives you the leep you need to get control over your life again.

  2. Riki Quinn says:

    I agree with you Roy. I think it’s great that you decided to achieve the wonderful and inspiring goal of being a doctor. My sister, who is 30 too, did the same exact thing and I admire her for that. I do think that it takes a person with a lot of inner strength to do something like this. Maybe you’ve been too rooted until now. What I tried to stress in the article, and perhaps it didn’t come through, is that one needs to find the balance between rooting and flying. It’s your turn to fly. But medicine in its nature is a down-to-earth profession and I know it can be extremely stressful. So, from time to time, take the time to hug the trees and root.
    Riki

  3. Riki Quinn says:

    I’m sorry you had trouble reading the post but thanks for your feedback. It should work on any internet server, but I’ll do my best to check it out.
    Riki

  4. sandra407 says:

    Hi! I was surfing and found your blog post… nice! I love your blog. :) Cheers! Sandra. R.

  5. Riki Quinn says:

    Thanks Sandra! That’s great to hear. I hope to write some more soon…
    Riki

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